Encounterism
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Encounterism
Human beings are fundamentally historical beings. We both receive and give something in such relationships of erotic encounter (we do the same, in a different way, in the creation of art—we leave some of ourselves in its making). Somewhat even over our own will and affect, we leave behind something of our own being in such deeply personal relations
... See moreFirst, whenever possible, connect with others. Second, with enthusiasm, strive always to create fun and delight for others. And third, lean into each moment and encounter expecting magic—or miracles.
Acts of shared creation and sexual relationships cause us to leave something of ourselves behind. In art and sex, we leave behind an impression of our being.