Diary of A Lover Girl

restaurant, and saw a hot blonde chick getting salsa. So I thought, “Salsa sounds good to me.” I’ve been gearing my game up for this moment, and now it was time to take what I deserved. So I walked over to her side and pretended like I was just at the salsa bar by coincidence. I helped myself to some salsa, and then looked over my right shoulder at

HER: Can I get you another drink? ZAN: (Smile, wink) You know what? You’re kinda cute. I think I’m going to call you. HER: You think so, huh? You don’t have my number. ZAN: Why, you’re right! Okay, tell me and I will write it down. HER: (Smiling) Not a good idea. I have a boyfriend. ZAN: (Pretending to write) Whoa, slow down. I didn’t quite catch y

He would charm with his “sincerity” (sincerity can be feigned, and is just one stratagem among others). This only works, however, when you sense that the target is easily yours. If not, the defenses and suspicions you raise by direct attack will make your seduction impossible. When in doubt, indirection is the better route.