Become Your Own Matchmaker: 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate

When couples are juggling more than dinners and shared weekends, a diversification of skills and interests can be helpful. Differences can keep life fresh.

When is the last time you and your spouse discussed what it specifically means to be “happy” and how you each define that term? When was the last time you discussed, in specific terms, what a “satisfying” sex life is for each of you? These should be conversations you look forward to! They’re about being happy and about fucking, for fuck’s sake!

What can make a marriage work is surprisingly simple. Happily married couples aren’t smarter, richer, or more psychologically astute than others. But in their day-to-day lives, they have hit upon a dynamic that keeps their negative thoughts and feelings about each other (which all couples have) from overwhelming their positive ones. Rather than cre

If you would marry them even if you couldn’t tell anyone else, ever; if you would marry them if you couldn’t wear a ring; if you had to get married in an empty room wearing a bin-bag, and you still would. Then that’s a great litmus test that you should.