Become Your Own Matchmaker: 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate
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Become Your Own Matchmaker: 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate
Here are some examples of necessary time-consuming dating activities on the road to becoming committed to someone: Having enough talks to safely open up with each other Entering each other’s worlds of work, hobbies, worship, and service Meeting and spending time with each other’s friends Understanding each other’s strengths and weaknesses Going ove
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And if your desire is for a spouse who will not demand a lot of change from you, then you are also looking for a spouse who is almost completely pulled together, someone very “low maintenance” without much in the way of personal problems. You are looking for someone who will not require or demand significant change. You are searching, therefore, fo
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Jacob Falkovich says that single people often seek out similarity when complementarity is what makes relationships cohere long-term. It’s a great observation. But how to operationalize it? Maybe: look for someone you can’t initially understand, but also don’t feel like walking away from.
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Get a Life A full life is probably the best antidote for getting too close, too fast. Nature abhors a vacuum, and people tend to fill up emptiness with romantic commitment. Ask God to help you get involved in real life: spending time on friends, work, hobbies, church, service, and God himself.