Nous pouvons toutefois apprendre à avoir des désaccords plus courtois, plus civilisés. Cela commence par la reconnaissance des valeurs universelles qui sous-tendent la position de l’autre.

A number of qualities are required to ensure that a couple know how to argue well. There is, first and foremost, the need for each party to be able to pinpoint sources of discomfort in themselves early and accurately: to know how to recognize what they are unhappy about and what they need in order to flourish in the couple.