Sublime

Women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you’re not fucking her, you’re her girlfriend.

If you choose to involve yourself with any of these types of women, then my advice, unless otherwise stated, is to limit your interaction to a “Friends With Benefits” (or FWB) relationship and to keep spinning plates. As soon as you identify one or more of these red flags, limit her to plate status, or pass on them and make no further emotional inv

PHIL THE FLAKE: He cancels at the last minute repeatedly because of a work thing, a family emergency, or a relative’s death (I dated a guy who once used the death in the family excuse three times in one week.) If he doesn’t show up when he

He frequently glances at the door to see if other gorgeous women have walked in, and he flirts with the waitress, bartender, hostess—anything with a vagina.