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To heal, they need a warm, loving connection to others who support them in developing their own capacities by gently directing their attention back to their own core and to their own strengths and abilities.
Steven Kessler • The 5 Personality Patterns: Your Guide to Understanding Yourself and Others and Developing Emotional Maturity

The Mindfulness Prescription for Adult ADHD: An 8-Step Program for Strengthening Attention, Managing Emotions, and Achieving Your Goals
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Emotional Intelligence
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Every time we feel shame, or blame ourselves for the faults of others, we can be sure we are reacting from a childhood image.
Eva Pierrakos • The Undefended Self: Living the Pathwork

withdrawal The non-BP may leave the situation, either emotionally or physically. This could include working long hours, remaining silent for fear of saying something wrong, or terminating the relationship. This may result in the person with BPD feeling abandoned and acting out more intensely.