Sublime

All three—Alan, Jason, and Jose—believed that someone else’s needs were more important than their own—a common occurrence in Nice Guy families.

Following this rule of thumb, they simply ask themselves, “How would a healthy male handle this situation?”

The process of writing my online profile illuminated the reality that I didn’t have much of a life. It hit me that being a no-life Nice Guy wasn’t going to attract the kind of woman I wanted. In order to naturally attract amazing women to me, I had to create an amazing life.

Their fathers were either passive, unavailable, absent, or defined in some negative way.