Sublime

The Wayward Mind by Guy Claxton.

The User Illusion by Tor Norretranders.

abhidharma, the Buddhist system of psychology.

Unconscious patterns are deeply engrained

Carl Rogers

Debra Chamberlin-Taylor,

Then there’s developmental psychology, which maintains that our basic nature is dependent on the kind of parenting we received. If you were fortunate to have “good enough” parenting during certain critical periods in your early development, you emerged from childhood with a certain amount of “ego strength.” If you didn’t, you were out of luck. You

Systems of parts and people tend to polarize, form protective alliances, and exclude or cut off from each other whenever they are traumatized and lack effective leadership.