Sublime

How To Have Confidence And Power In Dealing With People (1956) Les Giblin

Whatever age you are, you’ve almost certainly developed an inner story about what you can do and what you can’t do; what you’re good at and what you’re not good at.

Under Saturn’s Shadow by James Hollis, a Jungian analyst.

My unique ability occurs within the larger skill of helping people solve problems. The best way I can describe it is that I can be with people in a certain way that enables them to come up with creative solutions they hadn’t thought of before. I can create a space that brings forth innovative solutions from inside myself or from people I’m working

“People love to do the thing they are wired to do,” he says. A person can go a long way with a narrow skill set.

these exceptionalists began as ordinary people. And through relentless practice and constant drilling to wire in excellent daily habits, their power to manage themselves against their cravings and temptations grew stronger until the culture perceived them as superhumans.”

Each of us is born with the neural wiring to be successful, but more is required to excel at the highest levels.