Sublime

Gavin de Becker had written a great book on the topic—The Gift of Fear.

To the detached persons reading this book: Recognize that you have been the terrible partner. Through your fear and obsessive love you have robbed your spouse of the ability to feel trusted, to feel confident, or to feel secure.

I had a client, Randall, who came to me after working for a narcissist for many years. His boss, Mark, lied to him on a pathological scale, broke promises, abused his time and goodwill, manipulated him into thinking that he was incapable of working anywhere else, convincing him that staying was in his