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also to self-worth.
Laurence Endersen • Pebbles of Perception: How a Few Good Choices Make All The Difference
What is required of parents is not perfection but attention, a willingness to learn and relearn, repeatedly—what each child individually needs, and needs from us, in order to blossom and thrive.
Shai Held • Judaism Is About Love: Recovering the Heart of Jewish Life
sense of entitlement
Malcolm Gladwell • Outliers
The Drama of the Gifted Child
Timothy Ferriss • Tribe Of Mentors: Short Life Advice from the Best in the World
Not only does overparenting hurt our children; it harms us, too. Parents today are scared, not to mention exhausted, anxious, and depressed.
Julie Lythcott-Haims • How to Raise an Adult — Julie Lythcott-Haims
Knowing about the attachment styles empowers people to harness their biology to work for them rather than against them.
Amir Levine • Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love
For people interested in learning more about the model, I recommend Kegan’s graduate student Jennifer Garvey Berger’s more recent and less academic book Changing on the Job.
Timothy Ferriss • Tribe of Mentors: Short Life Advice from the Best in the World
She is what I call the Teaching Mommy, meaning that she is there to model this, to show your adult self how to do it.
Jasmin Lee Cori MS LPC • The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed
