Sublime

the five A’s come to us as gifts in childhood. They are then bestowed by us as gifts to others. They are not the result of effort but are the automatic overflow of love we receive.

like the way Kundalini Yoga explains the optimal dynamic: one partner is the conscious giver while the other is the taker. This is how polarity works—it is a conscious decision to amplify the arc of energy by either taking control or surrendering control in the sexual moment. Dominants and submissives have practiced this yoga for years. Although ge

In Journey of the Heart, an extraordinary book on relationships, John Welwood points out what he calls “a natural balancing process” between partners. He writes: “Anything that one partner ignores, the other will feel a greater need to emphasize. Whatever quality of being I deny, such as power, softness or playfulness, my partner will find herself