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if you are afraid to have confidence in others, in the long run you will not be able to build deep relationships with anyone.
Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga • The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
The interpersonal relationships that a single individual has no choice but to confront when attempting to live as a social being—these are the life tasks.
Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga • The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
Forcing change while ignoring the person’s intentions will only lead to an intense reaction.
Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga • The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
You must not run away. No matter how distressful the relationship, you must not avoid or put off dealing with it. Even if in the end you’re going to cut it with scissors, first you have to face it. The worst thing to do is to just stand still with the situation as it
Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga • The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
When reward is at the base of an interpersonal relationship, there’s a feeling that wells up in one that says, “I gave this much, so you should give me that much back.” This is a notion that is quite different from separation of tasks, of course. We must not seek reward, and we must not be tied to it.
Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga • The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
Internally ask both parts to express themselves until they find a place of cooperation, rapport, and communication so that in the future they can work together. 7. When you feel
Dan Millman • THE LIFE YOU WERE BORN TO LIVE:: A Guide to Finding Your Life Purpose

Les réponses venant des autres ne sont rien de plus que des solutions de dépannage ; elles n’ont aucune valeur. Regarde Socrate, qui n’a pas laissé un seul livre écrit de sa propre main. Il passait ses journées à avoir des débats publics avec les citoyens d’Athènes, en particulier les jeunes, et c’est son disciple, Platon, qui a transcrit sa philos
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