Sublime

I, Michelle, am willing to change my patterns in romantic relationships. I commit to seeing my partner as equal to everything and everyone else I love in my life. I promise not to make an idol of him, and to honor him for his inner greatness rather than his frame. I forgive myself and him for my ego’s illusions. From this day forward, I commit to t

My fury is for every woman who’s been told by the church that God values her marriage more than her soul, her safety, her freedom.

I tell her that we need a church that will help us practice loving ourselves without shame, loving others without agenda, and loving God without fear.

Make the commitment to guide, love, support, challenge, caress, lick, make love to, and completely accept the complexity of who she is—only then will she fully trust you to love her utterly. Not only do you see the depth and beauty of her heart but you also know and choose to be by her side as her greatest ally in the battle for conscious loving.