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I asked Rob what he thought was the most revealing detail in his book. He thought for a moment before saying that it was the way Dalio treated his longtime number two and protégé, Greg Jensen . Jensen, as the book conveys, was a devoted Dalio acolyte of both the man and his Principles. Jensen was hoping to succeed Dalio and kept waiting and waiting... See more
The Shape of Bridgewater
- Problem-Solving Together
Roger Fisher • Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
Remember, You Can’t Change Other People.
Roger Fisher • Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
Doug Standley
@dougs
Super curious and maniacal lifetime learner.
Problem-Solving “The answer is for you to call me more often.”
Roger Fisher • Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
We Trigger Their Identity Conversation from the Start Our story invariably (though often unintentionally) communicates a judgment about them—the kind of person they are—and the fact that inside our version of the events, they are the problem.
Roger Fisher • Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
So long as we each continue to see this as a matter of right versus wrong, rather than as an intersection, there is no way to avoid a train wreck.
Roger Fisher • Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
Step One: Become Aware of Your Identity Issues
Roger Fisher • Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
Tell that story with all the vividness and detail that’s in your head as you discuss your concerns about the decision.