Sublime

you will convert the direction of the orgasm, so instead of ejaculating out your penis, you will “ejaculate” up your spine, experiencing intense bodily bliss and emotional openness, far beyond the quick pleasure and depleted peace following an ejaculative orgasm. To practice this exercise, you must learn to consciously contract the muscles of the f

One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman’s emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax.

Which leads to this conclusion: most men aren’t motivated to improve their intimacy or sex skills until they realize that in doing so they are actually advancing their true purpose. Your capacity to “fuck” your woman is your capacity to “fuck” the world. If you can penetrate your woman with love in spite of her resistances, if you can bloom her hea

The masculine heart responds most fully when aligned with a mission to advance freedom, including financial, artistic, or spiritual freedom.

you. A superior man dissolves into the mystery and re-emerges full of love to give, again and again, without petering out, in his sexual relationship with his woman, and in his creative relationship with the world.

For their sake, your sake, and your woman’s sake, discover your deepest purpose, commit yourself completely to its process, and find a way to embrace your family as you do so.

The game of life is to find each situation workable, to transform each occasion through the magnification of love, to give your fullest gift in every moment, and to have no attachments to the outcome, knowing it’s all going to rise and fall and rise again. You have mastered women and the world when no desire either to avoid or attain sways your lov

All masculine goals—at work, on the meditation cushion, or on the football field—are directed toward more freedom. The typical masculine desire for freedom involves the feeling of death, which is the ultimate masculine fear and freedom, in one way or another.