Molly
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Molly
Empathy is cultivated through interactions with people we don’t know well, those glimpses into other interior worlds. We have, over the past two decades—slowly and then quickly—“optimized” other people out of our lives. One app at a time, we’ve greatly reduced our need to casually engage with anyone we don’t know—or even to meaningfully engage with those we do.
You are safe where you are, but you are not getting what you want. If you go after what you want, you will have to create a safety that can travel — one that can get bumped around and sleep in odd places and get crafty when the first of the month rolls around. You will, in other words, have to believe in the home of yourself.
Eliza McLamb • Dear Peach: big city ambition, rejection obsession, and escaping waifhood
“You can have anything you want but you can’t have everything you want”
Eliza McLamb • Dear Peach: big city ambition, rejection obsession, and escaping waifhood
The internet has also made us all acutely aware of crises in the world. We're bombarded with a firehose of information every day as algorithms amplify the most inflammatory and disturbing content. There is no going back to the pre-2016 state of ignorance that many people, especially upper middle class white people, were immersed in.
'Libbing out' is the latest irony-fueled coping mechanism
What’s happening outside your window is real; a feed of the people and subjects algorithmically determined to validate or anger you is not. I look out mine and see my neighbor on his roof. I see him there often, like he is today, watering his plants. We can do more than touch grass—we can get outside and help something, anything, grow.
Touching grass isn't enough
Now that we’re on the other side of these consequences, I can no longer kid myself. It’s time to stop ceding our humanity to these platforms. It’s time to invest back into IRL community. It’s time to stop 24/7 scrolling social media—you will not find the answers there.
Touching grass isn't enough
This quest also addresses a very contemporary phenomenon: nowstalgia. We strive to preserve the present at all costs, but in this obsession, we miss the essence of it. By framing and filming, we’re already living in the nostalgia of a moment we haven’t taken the time to feel.
A flash that says it all…
In this world where we seek to immortalize everything without ever knowing what to hold onto, this Polaroid invites us to reflect.
A flash that says it all…
Now, it feels like anything bad that happens anywhere in the world is somehow relevant to me and my responsibility. It’s like, I’m not allowed to be happy as long as someone, somewhere, is having a bad time.... See more
Especially with global problems, it’s like, how are you allowed to smile when there’s climate change? These problems are really bad, but you