
We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships

People who care about each other will take the time to thoughtfully challenge each other when they see a way that the other person can grow or improve.
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
Hi From The Other Side
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
relationships that foster intimacy and reciprocal care,
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
invite someone over to share a task like gardening or cooking.[3] “It allows for gentle spaces and easy silences that break up the conversation at a natural pace. It just feels more relaxed.”
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
it takes ninety to 200 hours to turn a stranger or acquaintance into a close friend.
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
Frequency is the combination of timing and repetition that allows you to foster fondness and familiarity.
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
Tell the person across from you three jobs you could imagine them doing well.
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
Functional social support usually comes in one of four ways: Emotional, tangible, informational, and companionate.
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
scheduled or spontaneous,