
The Unexpected Joy of Being Single

Have a full life of spiritual growth, personal growth, vocational growth, altruistic service, hobbies, intellectual growth, and the like. The active, growing life does not have time or inclination to be dependent on a date. The more you have a full life of relationship with God, service to others, and interesting stimulating activities, the less yo
... See moreJohn Townsend • Boundaries in Dating: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships
(Anyhow, the golden rule in my family is this: If you’re supporting yourself financially and you’re not bothering anyone else, then you’re free to do whatever you want with your life.)
Elizabeth Gilbert • Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear
Start to see your lovers or dates as friends. Imagine how cool it would be if you could be 100 percent relaxed and authentic on a date! Try it out. Lighten up your romantic relationships by viewing your partner as a friend. Start by simply being yourself, and act as if you’re out with your friends. It may be tough at first, but it works. Relax and
... See moreGabrielle Bernstein • Add More Ing to Your Life: A Hip Guide to Happiness
I believe romance should be a by-product of living within community, not the holy grail of relationships.
Nadia Meli
Nov 04, 2024
This story is shared anonymously but with permission:
My friend was dating a man for a couple of months over the summer. They met with him once a week, every week - until they had to... See more