The School of Life Dictionary

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We typically think of anger as a dark and pessimistic state of mind. But behind anger lies a surprising emotion: optimism. Beneath their ranting, the angry are possessed of some recklessly optimistic notions of how life might go. They are not merely in a destructive fury; they are in the grip of hope.

Serenity therefore begins with pessimism. We must learn to disappoint ourselves at leisure before the world ever has a chance to slap us by surprise at a time of its own choosing.

4. Sexuality At the School of Life, we are aware of the scale of the hopes and challenges around sex. Although we often believe ourselves to be living in a liberated age, it remains difficult

Today, you may be short of cash, low on prestige and bruised by rejection. But, it is insinuated, these are transient troubles. Hard work, a positive attitude and bright ideas have every chance of breaking the deadlocks in due course. It is just a question of willpower. Modernity never ceases to emphasise that success could, somehow, be ours one da

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The problem with the modern world is that it does not stop lending us extremely high expectations. We are constantly invited to dream.

The desire for fame has its roots in the experience of neglect and injury. No one would want to be famous who hadn’t also, somewhere in the past, been made to feel insignificant.

However, none of these manufacturers make much headway in delivering the things we really would love to be getting: the good family life, the self-belief, the warm marriage and the better friendships that currently painfully elude us and whose exquisite portrayal cleverly tricked us (perhaps) into buying a sedan or a barbecue set.