The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth
M. Scott Peckamazon.com
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The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth
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Recently we have been hearing of the “mid-life crisis.” Actually, this is but one of many “crises,” or critical stages of development, in life, as Erik Erikson taught us thirty years ago. (Erikson delineated eight crises; perhaps there are more.) What makes crises of these transition periods in the life cycle—that is, problematic and painful—is tha
... See moreHe chooses to lament his lack of political power instead of accepting and exulting in his immense personal power.
Since patients are not yet consciously willing or ready to recognize that the “old self” and “the way things used to be” are outdated, they are not aware that their depression is signaling that major change is required for successful and evolutionary adaptation.
Most of us are not so wise. Fearing the pain involved, almost all of us, to a greater or lesser degree, attempt to avoid problems. We procrastinate, hoping that they will go away. We ignore them, forget them, pretend they do not exist. We even take drugs to assist us in ignoring them, so that by deadening ourselves to the pain we can forget the pro
... See moreAlthough an entire book could be written about each one, let me simply list, roughly in order of their occurrence, some of the major conditions, desires and attitudes that must be given up in the course of a wholly successful evolving lifetime: The state of infancy, in which no external demands need be responded to The fantasy of omnipotence The de
... See morethe decision to withhold the truth should never be based on personal needs, such as a need for power, a need to be liked or a need to protect one’s map from challenge.
This tendency to avoid problems and the emotional suffering inherent in them is the primary basis of all human mental illness.
“If you are not part of the solution, then you are part of the problem.”
Examination of the world without is never as personally painful as examination of the world within, and it is certainly because of the pain involved in a life of genuine self-examination that the majority steer away from it.