The Radical Guide to Being Your Own Primary Partner | Radical Relating

If you grew up putting others first too much, you may end up living a life of reaction rather than one of fulfillment. Instead, you can learn to become your own champion and protector, valuing and supporting who you are on the inside. The self-awareness you gain will center and ground you in your true self. Finding your authentic self is an enliven

The more clear you become about who you are, what you want, and what makes you tick emotionally, the better a relationship partner you will be.

Have a full life of spiritual growth, personal growth, vocational growth, altruistic service, hobbies, intellectual growth, and the like. The active, growing life does not have time or inclination to be dependent on a date. The more you have a full life of relationship with God, service to others, and interesting stimulating activities, the less yo

You must continually reevaluate what is most true for you and then take complete ownership of aligning your life with it. Anything less and you will feel chronically off. Your romantic partner will not be able to fully trust you, and the world will sense that you are living out of step with your own personal integrity. This means you must remove as