
The Practicing Stoic: A Philosophical User's Manual

our pleasures, griefs, desires and fears all involve three stages rather than two: not just an event and a reaction, but an event, then a judgment or opinion about it, and then a reaction (to the judgment or opinion). Our task is to notice the middle step, to understand its frequent irrationality, and to control it through the patient use of reason
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Only the novice is inflated and grasping and fearful; but we are all novices. Life is regrettably short because it does not allow us enough trials to become as wise as we would wish. Stoic philosophy is a compensation – a substitute for time, or simulation of it. Stoicism means to offer the wisdom while skipping the repetition; it tries to get by c
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We always feel as though we react to things in the world; in fact we react to things in ourselves. And sometimes changing ourselves will be more effective and sensible than trying to change the world.
Ward Farnsworth • The Practicing Stoic: A Philosophical User's Manual
The first principle of practical Stoicism is this: we don’t react to events; we react to our judgments about them, and the judgments are up to us.
Ward Farnsworth • The Practicing Stoic: A Philosophical User's Manual
Experience is humbling. Instead you might have other types of joy – the calm kind that comes from appreciation and understanding.
Ward Farnsworth • The Practicing Stoic: A Philosophical User's Manual
An ancient Greek saying holds that we are tormented not by things themselves but by the opinions that we have of them.
Ward Farnsworth • The Practicing Stoic: A Philosophical User's Manual
show them those qualities that are entirely up to you: sincerity, dignity, endurance of hardship; not pleasure-seeking, not complaining of your lot, needing little; kindness and generosity; being modest, not chattering idly, but high-minded. Don’t you see how many you could display immediately – having no excuse on account of lack of natural capaci
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Our good or bad depends on no one but ourselves. Montaigne,
Ward Farnsworth • The Practicing Stoic: A Philosophical User's Manual
with respect to emotion and adversity, Stoics want the kind of wisdom that we associate with long experience. But in certain settings they seek, in effect, the attitude of the newcomer.