The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed

Questions to Spark Investment “What’s your favorite color?” “What did you think of high school?” “What did you eat for dinner last night?” “Have you ever been to the hospital emergency room?” “How old where you when you first got drunk?” “Did you and your siblings keep secrets?” “Ever had a very rough breakup?” “What’s your favorite food, vacation,

Kino and kissing are comfort builders, not seduction. If you go too far into seduction before you have enough comfort, you’ll feel like a great player at the time, but you won’t get the girl when (1) your fool’s mate backfires and (2) she experiences buyer’s remorse the next day.

By demonstrating a willingness to walk or to step up and call bullshit in a fun way, you demonstrate that you are being genuine with her, which creates trust, allowing her to feel safe. This is what girls mean when they say they want a man who can keep it real. A girl needs to feel that she is getting to know the real you—and that takes time.

Practicing A1 and A2 will develop the skill set to get IOIs instead of IODs. The path to mastery is not found by telling a hot woman that she is hot, offering to buy her a drink, being too persistent, or asking her lots of questions. Instead, practice A1 (be indirect and nonneedy) and practice A2 (stagger “negs” with demonstrations of higher value)

we cannot let her know we’re choosing her based on looks because it doesn’t seem genuine and makes us appear like other typical men. A woman’s indicators of interest (IOIs) notify when to go from the attraction stage to the comfort stage, but you must not do so until she has legitimately earned your IOIs as well! Getting IOIs from a woman is simply

People who are well acquainted with one another tend to use multiple conversational threads while talking. New acquaintances tend to go from one complete thread to another in a more linear fashion. By using multiple conversational threads you can create the feeling that you and the target are already old friends. You also protect yourself from a co

In A3, you will use her interest, combined with takeaways and screening, to bait the target into demonstrating value of her own. When she demonstrates value in an attempt to win you over, reward her with IOIs, then bait her again as the process repeats. In this way, her reward is tied to her investment. As she demonstrates value, she is simultaneou

Nonsexual intimate kissing is a welcomed comfort-stage action. In fact, if you wait too long to kiss her, she will at some point become uninterested and you will lose the opportunity to kiss her in the future. Generally, this type of “comfort kissing” lasts less than thirty seconds and does not include tongue. Kissing, on the one hand, expresses an

you can’t simply approach a seated set and join them at their table. To do so would be try-hard. So what is the field-tested best practice for opening a seated set? 1. Open the set (as you would for a standing set). 2. Part of the way into the opener, use a false time constraint. 3. Continue the opener as you grab a chair and sit down with the set.