
The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover

If you want to increase genital arousal, emphasize inhalation. If you want to decrease genital arousal, emphasize exhalation. As you inhale, open yourself to fully receive love, life, and energy.
David Deida • The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover
The superior lover is one who practices authentic loving in the form of his or her chosen lifestyle, rather than stopping short and building a comfortable cage of familiar habits inside the confines of
David Deida • The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover
Enlightening your sex involves cultivating the capacity to sustain high energy over long periods of time while remaining relaxed and open. It
David Deida • The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover
It is unfortunate that our culture leaves most people completely uneducated in the higher enjoyments and deeper blisses of sexuality. In order to move to a new level of sexuality, you can retrain
David Deida • The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover
The tongue and genitals share many similarities. They are both superlative givers and receivers of energy.
David Deida • The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover
As you look up with your eyes while contracting your pelvic floor and exhaling your energy upward along your spine, it is also quite possible that you will feel yourself “leaving your body” out through the top of your head.
David Deida • The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover
Your eyes are strong regulators of energy.
David Deida • The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover
you stop depleting your energies through these habitual means, you may first notice yourself getting anxious to some degree. This is because your body is being filled with more energy than it is used to handling.
David Deida • The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover
sexual embrace becomes a spiritual revelation.