Tantric Sex for Men: Making Love a Meditation

it is not a question of how to get rid of jealousy. It is more a question of loving without conditions. Love that does not control or posses but honors the other’s freedom to live their own life.

These kinds of body responses let you know that you are emotional and that something unresolved is being triggered.

Jealousy is about having the desire to possess and control another person;

Anger and frustration levels reduce dramatically when hot sex and ejaculation are avoided or reduced.

This experience taught me what is most important when touching my wife: relaxed, loving presence toward myself.

These tensions try to seek discharge in various ways—through irritation, complaining, nagging, or passing on your frustration to family members or colleagues.

Tantra masters also inform us that ejaculation is always preceded by the thought of ejaculation, that the origin of ejaculation is actually in the mind. Without the thought of ejaculation there is rarely an ejaculation (except when a woman gets overexcited and pulls an ejaculation from a man, as already mentioned).

It takes practice to learn to identify and give value to finer bodily sensations, the delicious, subtle vibrations of life streaming and flowing through you.

Prolonged sexual experience in relaxation brings him a confidence and trust in himself, which in turn reduces presexual tension and excitement, and thereby postpones ejaculation.