Tantric Sex for Men: Making Love a Meditation

In fact, when emotions get activated the toxins of feelings gone sour move through a layer of connective tissue in the body, called fascia.

If we are conscious in each moment, in each movement, the unfolding of sex can become a state of awe and wonder that lasts for hours.

We say the most awful things to our partner in an attempt to unburden ourselves of our emotions.

Pain is interesting; it is a doorway, and there is usually treasure hidden behind that pain.

As woman relaxes in love, meditation or presence grows by itself. As man relaxes into meditation and being present, unconditional and pure love grows by itself.

And every strain creates tension, and tension creates a necessity, a need, to release.

The orientation is one of sexual union as a meditation in which the intelligence is handed back to the genitals.

As we begin to release these old feelings consciously (whenever we notice them arising), pieces of the past get healed.

Equally quickly, any sadness, pain, anger, or frustration, if fully lived as it is happening, will have a life span of about eight intense seconds, after which it is all over.