Pebbles of Perception: How a Few Good Choices Make All The Difference
Pillar Four: Deserve a good partner.
Laurence Endersen • Pebbles of Perception: How a Few Good Choices Make All The Difference
Don’t automatically accept what you are told.
Laurence Endersen • Pebbles of Perception: How a Few Good Choices Make All The Difference
Start by considering the end. Visualise both the road to personal fulfilment and the destination. Consider what behaviour would thwart that fulfilment and do the opposite. Thinking about the route to avoid helps reveal the more rewarding road.
Laurence Endersen • Pebbles of Perception: How a Few Good Choices Make All The Difference
Cornerstone Three: Invest rationally. Rational in this context means being coldly logical.
Laurence Endersen • Pebbles of Perception: How a Few Good Choices Make All The Difference
Stand up for yourself.
Laurence Endersen • Pebbles of Perception: How a Few Good Choices Make All The Difference
A more productive, higher energy level is when we become proactive.
Laurence Endersen • Pebbles of Perception: How a Few Good Choices Make All The Difference
In recognising and accepting the impermanence of all things we choose awareness over attachment, flow over resistance.
Laurence Endersen • Pebbles of Perception: How a Few Good Choices Make All The Difference
(the coherent story bias).
Laurence Endersen • Pebbles of Perception: How a Few Good Choices Make All The Difference
What then is our goal as parents? Two important things are: (i) showing unconditional love, and (ii) fostering our children’s self-esteem. The goal is that our children know they are loved and know they are capable.