Own Your Greatness: Overcome Impostor Syndrome, Beat Self-Doubt, and Succeed in Life

For example, you may be recruited to support the care of an adult sibling, even though this sibling may be fully capable of caring for themselves.

People with impostor syndrome can also exhibit high emotional intelligence. They are particularly keen at understanding what others need to make them feel valued and connected to them.

Anger and conflict are present and not well managed in the family.

This shows a definite tendency for women to be counterphobic (i.e., facing fears directly) when it comes to impostor syndrome fears, which leaves them steeped in the constant experiences of feeling like an impostor.

On the other hand, the person with impostor syndrome was considered the sensitive or social/emotionally competent family member.

Communication and behavior are governed by strict rules and procedures.

Not understanding their worth (i.e., salary comps) in the marketplace Fear of negotiating Lack of motivation to leave stagnating roles Reluctance to vie for promotion Avoidance of high-visibility stretch assignments Difficulty networking and communicating their accomplishments to others Trouble envisioning their long-term career future

So, while people with impostor syndrome tend to be more unhappy in their jobs and careers, they are also likely to commit to these places that are making them unhappy, perhaps in an effort to create some sense of stability and predictability in terms of evaluation.

Looking for approval from others, having trouble expressing your own opinions, and feeling insecure of your own accomplishments are natural developments from these conditions.