
Judaism Is About Love: Recovering the Heart of Jewish Life

Ahavat yisrael is not—cannot be—the religious equivalent of “our country, right or wrong.”
Shai Held • Judaism Is About Love: Recovering the Heart of Jewish Life
A medieval sage, Rabbi Asher ben Yehiel (Rosh, 1250?–1327), insists that this mitzvah of receiving people warmly applies not just to one-on-one encounters but also to the way we carry ourselves in public. “Let not your face be angry toward passersby,” he says, “but receive them with a friendly countenance.”48 How we comport ourselves in the world m
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The prohibition on embarrassing another is one of Judaism’s cardinal sins, they say, and one should sooner die than transgress
Shai Held • Judaism Is About Love: Recovering the Heart of Jewish Life
When you judge someone favorably, the Hasidic master Rebbe Nahman of Bratzlav (1772–1810) teaches, you elevate them and bring out the best that they are capable of being.
Shai Held • Judaism Is About Love: Recovering the Heart of Jewish Life
The prophets count on us to be appalled by injustice.
Shai Held • Judaism Is About Love: Recovering the Heart of Jewish Life
Covenantal living is intergenerational living—it is to know oneself as the descendant of ancestors and the ancestor of descendants, all sharing a dream of a world in which human dignity is real and the presence of God is manifest (more on this dream in chapter 12).
Shai Held • Judaism Is About Love: Recovering the Heart of Jewish Life
the Torah insists that if we are grateful, we must share; yet on the other, it suggests that if we are grateful, we will want to share, because the urge to share is a significant part of what it means to be grateful.
Shai Held • Judaism Is About Love: Recovering the Heart of Jewish Life
to be a Jew is to cry out, even when silence would be safer, easier, and more convenient.
Shai Held • Judaism Is About Love: Recovering the Heart of Jewish Life
The words “image” (tzelem) and “likeness” (demut), which are used in the Bible to refer to forbidden idols,20 are the very words used to describe the human being created in God’s image: