How to turn "small talk" into Big Talk
How did you….
What’s it like….
Tell me about…
Where did you grow up?
That’s a lovely name. How’d your parents choose it?
What is the best way to grow old?
"What crossroads are you at?" At any moment, most of us are in the middle of some transition. The question helps people focus on theirs.
"What would you do if you weren't afraid?" Most people know tha
When you find out a friend has recently returned from a trip (or got a new job, moved to a new city, etc.), ask your friend for the director’s cut. Inquire about the details they haven’t posted online. Ask questions about the things that don’t make it into the photos: moments that were difficult or tinged by worry or moments that were just flat-out
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