
How to Live: 27 conflicting answers and one weird conclusion

Here’s how to live: Love.
Derek Sivers • How to Live: 27 conflicting answers and one weird conclusion
Distinguish between what’s in your control and what isn’t. If it’s not in your control, put it out of your head. Trying to control outcomes makes you disappointed and resentful. Focus only on your thoughts and actions.
Derek Sivers • How to Live: 27 conflicting answers and one weird conclusion
There’s only one law of nature: if you survive, you win. Be paranoid. Avoid failure to survive.
Derek Sivers • How to Live: 27 conflicting answers and one weird conclusion
The sooner you pay a price, the less it costs.
Derek Sivers • How to Live: 27 conflicting answers and one weird conclusion
When a problem is bothering you, it feels like you need to do something about it. Instead, identify what belief is really the source of your trouble. Replace that belief with one that doesn’t bother you. Then the problem is solved. Most problems are really just situations.
Derek Sivers • How to Live: 27 conflicting answers and one weird conclusion
Whatever scares you, go do it. Then it won’t scare you anymore. Whatever you hate, get to know it. Then you won’t hate it anymore.
Derek Sivers • How to Live: 27 conflicting answers and one weird conclusion
If you update the language and some references, books written thousands of years ago sound like they could have been written today. The human condition remains the same. Your book has all the wisdom you need. Read metaphorically, and apply it to your modern life.
Derek Sivers • How to Live: 27 conflicting answers and one weird conclusion
Here’s how to live: Do nothing.
Derek Sivers • How to Live: 27 conflicting answers and one weird conclusion
Have no expectation of how something should be, or you won’t see how it really is.