How Do People Actually Change? - Mockingbird

The way you change a person is by getting through not to their head or their will but to their heart.

The way you change a person is by getting through not to their head or their will but to their heart.

When we feel judged, we hide our love away, we put up our walls, we resist. If your theory of change depends in any way on the idea that telling someone what is wrong with them will lead to them changing what is wrong with them, you will be sorely ineffective.