From the Core: A New Masculine Paradigm for Leading with Love, Living Your Truth, and Healing the World
John Winelandamazon.com
From the Core: A New Masculine Paradigm for Leading with Love, Living Your Truth, and Healing the World
like the way Kundalini Yoga explains the optimal dynamic: one partner is the conscious giver while the other is the taker. This is how polarity works—it is a conscious decision to amplify the arc of energy by either taking control or surrendering control in the sexual moment. Dominants and submissives have practiced this yoga for years. Although ge
... See moreThere are hundreds of practices you could do to help create a culture of self-reflection in both of you: “Let’s each name three ways that we are making each other unfairly wrong,” for example, or “Let’s take three minutes each to share how we worship and punish each other.” The point is that if you both crave a sexually polarized relationship above
... See morefind the place in you that wants to feel her needs and desires every day, or let her go so she can find someone who wants to offer her that gift.
When your partner can sense that you have both felt and navigated the time and space of your relating, and she can feel the width and depth of your being, she can fully let go of any need to hold the structure. She can simply be the flow of energy and love that the structure you have created calls for.
Mind-blowing, soul-healing, life-changing sex begins with an intentional, detailed preparation to create something special for both of you. And yes, there is an art to it. How you prepare yourself and your lover for sex is as important as the sex itself, if not more so. It is in this meticulous space of creation that your devotion and generosity ca
... See moreFind where life is begging you to drop in more and face it with unwavering abandon.
All of the traits that have made the Warrior so impactful throughout history—bravery, dedication, sacrifice, and honor—can be learned, practiced, and transmitted through the body at any moment—in service of love, truth, and freedom.
That is what healthy masculine leadership means in the context of relational work. It’s about liberation of her love, not simply personal satisfaction. This is a primary masculine responsibility in any relationship with the Feminine—be it romantic, parental, or communal. The intentional decision to step into this role means that you are making the
... See moreIf you have unconsciously fallen into a life that does not inspire you, it’s crucial that you find out what you’re going to do about