Finding God Through Sex: Awakening the One of Spirit Through the Two of Flesh

Which leads to this conclusion: most men aren’t motivated to improve their intimacy or sex skills until they realize that in doing so they are actually advancing their true purpose. Your capacity to “fuck” your woman is your capacity to “fuck” the world. If you can penetrate your woman with love in spite of her resistances, if you can bloom her hea

men and women are actually wanting the same naked intensity of perfect bliss, which is their own true nature. They want to enjoy the absolute fullness of life pervaded by the absolute openness of consciousness. In any moment you are able to be who you are, deeply and without effort, fulfillment is perfect, love is complete, freedom is endless.

pleasure is the domain of the feminine.

Your capacity to “fuck” your woman is your capacity to “fuck” the world. If you can penetrate your woman with love in spite of her resistances, if you can bloom her heart in happiness, if you can bring her depth when she is superficial, align her life when she feels lost, brighten her with humor when she is dark—if you can learn to give your deepes

Both of these forms of closure, long-term and short-term, can be undone in sexual practice. You can actually use sex to de-ice the frozen heart.

It involves feeling your fear of emptiness and loneliness, your yearning for love, and your denial of death.

These qualities—consciousness, presence, humor, and wealth—reflect different levels of the attainment of masculine freedom; a person with these qualities is sexy to you if you have a feminine sexual essence.

For instance, perhaps 10% of women (and 80% of men) have a more masculine sexual

But if you allow yourself to fully incarnate these feelings of fear, need, and emptiness—if you open as them, breathe as them, and allow your body to be moved as them—then you allow yourself to live as the full power of love.