Now, by contrast, let me immediately go to the highest form of human beings. These are people who relate beautifully; who are deeply involved with others; who are unafraid of involvement; who have no protective covering against experience and feeling. Therefore they love. They permit themselves to love. In the last analysis, the ability to love alw

The Ability to Relate Depends on the Level of Consciousness

Without facing what we like least about ourselves, we cannot understand why we don’t have a well-working relationship, let alone make a significant change.

Remember that the whole plan of evolution is about uniting, bringing together individual consciousnesses, for only in this way can separateness be given up.

As long as you cannot admit that you are human and that you need help in exposing your vulnerabilities, you cannot form real relationships.

Harmonious Interaction This interaction between man and woman expresses the two sides of the creative power in a very obvious way. Union between the sexes is satisfactory to the degree that the two sides are in harmony within each partner. Only when that condition is fulfilled can harmony be established between them.

The Feminine Principle The consciousness behind the attitude of letting be is one of patient, trustful waiting, of allowing a ripening process come to fruition, of surrendering to a force set in motion; this may be called the feminine principle in creation.

The Masculine Principle To activate means that the conscious entity deliberately claims, sets in motion, moves toward, causes, determines, or purposefully uses these forces by calling them into action and removing every possible obstruction. Effort and endeavor are an integral part of setting the creative forces in motion. This is active doing. We

It is often not clear to you what constitutes a profound and meaningful relationship: Is the criterion the mutual exchange of ideas or is it the mutual exchange of sexual pleasure? Both may indeed be there, yet their presence will not necessarily make the communication very deep. The only true criterion is how genuine you are, how open and undefend