
Ask vs Guess Culture

I can’t tell whether this is so obvious it doesn’t merit mentioning, or so fundamental it’s hard to see, but I’ve noticed recently that there seem to be two core approaches people take to establishing trust in communication. Call them “truth-seeking” and “community-seeking.” Most people seem to have a dominant social mode in which they operate basi... See more
Are You a Jerk, or a Liar?
Are You a Jerk, or a Liar?
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Asking vs guessing in relation to the workplace. Pretty sure this connects to stuff Haley Nahman has written but just thought of it when reading Cate Hall
https://usefulfictions.substack.com/p/are-you-a-jerk-or-a-liar