Add More Ing to Your Life: A Hip Guide to Happiness

The Course teaches us to make our brotherly relationships (friendships) more romantic and our romantic relationships more brotherly. That was what was going on for me. Because I now found romance and sparks within my companionable relationships, I was able to take even more pressure off men.

still acting out with my ego in romantic relationships, but I was making progress. I accepted progress rather than perfection and I stayed down on my knees in prayer.

And I didn’t limit my gratitude to my romantic relationship; I focused on why I was grateful for all my relationships. This really helped me “de-special” my romantic relationship. I made it a point to reach out to my family and friends and acknowledge how much I loved them. When I looked at my friends and family with gratitude and appreciation, I w

So I began to shift my energy, and instead of writing down lists of things, I made feelings my goals. Not only that, I turned my focus in my spiritual practice over to gratitude, service, and devotion. Instead of constantly asking for more, I expressed genuine gratitude for all I had.